My son has schizophrenia, and there are times when it is very difficult to deal with the symptoms of his illness. In addition, friends and family do not understand this disease. I have been feeling frustrated and want to know how to get support for myself and information for my friends and family.

Schizophrenia is a very complex illness in which the person can experience many types of symptoms. The illness not only affects your loved one, but is an illness that affects the entire family in one way or another. Understanding the complexity and indeed, frustration of such a dreadful illness can be an almost overwhelming endeavor.

There is so much misinformation from the public media, and so much stigma still, that separating wheat from chaff is a hard task. It is very important to get as much information about schizophrenia so you can understand why your son acts or does what he does. Education is extremely important so you can help others (family and friends) understand what is occurring and why. Schizophrenia is a horrid disease, but one that is treatable. No one is responsible, especially parents, and the more information you have, the better able you are to answer questions. Most importantly, with more information you will be better equipped to help your son.

Do not feel you need to walk on "eggshells" to keep peace in your home. Learn to set limits. Do not take things personally. It is an illness that affects mood, thoughts and perceptions. Remember, when caring for someone with any type of illness, it is also important to take care of yourself.

Christian Hospital Northeast is offering a one-day workshop on "Living with Mental Illness" for family members and friends of people with schizophrenia. This workshop will be on October 25^th, 2003 from 9:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Call 314-362-WELL for more information and to register. Additionally, STEPS^SM is an on-going program that has been in existence since 1985 at Christian Hospital Northeast. STEPS^SM (Schizophrenia Treatment and Education Programs) is, just as the name says . . . a treatment program with education as a core component. Support groups for family members and for persons with schizophrenia are available at Christian Hospital. Feel free to call to get information about times and places. Other services are available through community organizations such as NAMI-St. Louis (314-966-4670) and the Mental Health Association (314-773-1399).

Jan Roe, RN and Garry Vickar, MD, FRCPC, DFAPA
Christian Hospital
St. Louis, MO
314-839-3171
800-447-4301

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